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If you haven’t seen my debt freedom progress reports before, each month I bring you a recap of the previous month’s progress on paying off our debt.
This serves two purposes — to keep my husband Mike and me accountable to our financial goals and to give you a look behind the scenes of our strategy for paying off our debt.
When you are trying to pay off debt and save toward financial freedom you can get pretty creative in trying to save money. But sometimes taking [Read more…]
At least your hardships may not be as bad if you live in certain states.
RewardExpert, a site that helps users optimize credit and debit card reward programs, examined factors that affect residents with poor credit – such as typical expenses, usury laws to limit predatory lending, and the status of debt collectors – and how those factors vary in each state.
Where is bad credit more tolerable? Consumers with bad credit should avoid the coasts and stick to the Midwest – not surprising, given the typically high costs of living in coastal areas.
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In the debt-free community, a lot of people shy away from sharing stories about the mistakes they’ve made. To me, that’s toxic behavior. By not sharing where you fell short, you may be taking the information away from someone who really needed it.
Recently, we fell behind. Things were getting harder to keep up before my husband took on a full-time job. My gas bill somehow stacked up to more than $300 and other bills were starting to pile up too. I knew once he started his job we would be able to catch up on everything fairly quickly. The end of the harder times was on the horizon, but it got me thinking about what we need to do in order to really catch up. If you’ve fallen behind, don’t worry. It happens to the best of us. Here’s what you can do.
Assess the bills you’ve fallen behind on and decide what needs to be paid first. These things would typically be necessities: rent/mortgage, utilities, food. Make sure you get your basic needs addressed first. Once you’ve done that you can move on to the other money you may owe.
When it comes to debt payments, most companies are willing to work with you on a plan to pay off your account. If you have a credit card and have fallen behind, give them a call and explain your situation. Usually, they will be able to work out a payment plan that better suits your current needs or push your payment date back so that you have more time. This can be said for loans, some utilities, phone bills, etc. You’ll never know if you don’t ask and it could make all the difference in how you bounce back from falling behind.
When you are ready to tackle your debt again, read more about the Debt Snowball Method here.
Once you’ve caught up on everything that you’ve fallen behind on, set a new budget. Obviously, the last one wasn’t working for you. Not to mention, you may have had some significant changes that impact your earnings, spending, etc. Don’t forget to include budget lines for any of the subscription services you have, entertainment/fun money, and recurring costs like car maintenance.
After you have set a budget that works for you, make sure you have enough left in your plan to stash some money away. Having savings to fall back on is a huge help when you fall behind or are having any kind of financial trouble. You always know you have that money in savings to take care of what you need in the mean time.
Chances are, if you’ve been behind for a little while, you’ve been ignoring a lot of your own personal needs. Take a small amount of your budget and spend money doing something you enjoy. This can help you feel more positive and motivated about your financial journey.
Contact lenses are those items that you need but hate to buy because of the price. Every time I buy them it hurts, especially if I can get them cheaper elsewhere! My husband and I both wear contacts and our vision insurance covers our yearly eye appointment and one of the following: up to $300 for glasses or up to $130 for contacts. Because of the better deal, we always opt in for using the insurance for glasses when our vision changes. So, that means we are paying out of pocket for contacts for the entire year.
My husband wears the 1-Day Acuvue contacts because he has a lot of allergies year around and his eyes are really sensitive. Before switching to the 1-Day Contacts from the 30-Day he would have to get prescription eye drops as well.
We normally order his contact lenses from the eye doctor and they were costing around $170 for a 3-month supply. Ouch! About 2 years ago we began ordering them through 1-800 Contacts and they normally run around $145.00 ($72.25 per eye) with free shipping.
Contacts Comparison |
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Store |
$ Per Eye |
Shipping |
Additional Steps |
Misc. Information |
Local Eye Doctor |
$90 | Pick Up | Order on-site | N/A |
1-800 Contacts |
$72.25 | Free Shipping | Submit Prescription | Price match guarantee and you can also get a discount when you buy larger quantities. ($61 for 4+ boxes) |
Walmart.com |
$66.00 | Free Shipping | Submit Prescription | Can get a discount if you buy larger quantities. ($56 per box for 4+ boxes) |
Walgreens.com |
$49.50 | Free Shipping | Submit Prescription | Currently offering 25% discount on any contact order. |
Walmart.com always has very competitive prices on almost any item they carry. I also found that Walgreens.com in now selling contacts as well. Walgreens always has promo codes to add to online orders and they have been having a 25% promo code for the last 2 months on contact lenses. Their contacts were originally $66 per eye, but after 25% off it came down to $49.50 per eye!
After much research, I ordered my husband’s contacts through Walgreens. I submitted his doctor’s name and fax number. Walgreens was able to verify the prescription that same day! I ordered his contacts on Monday afternoon and we got his contact in the mail that Friday and saved about $45 compared to our last contact purchase from 1-800 Contacts! That means we will be saving $180 a year on my husband’s contacts alone!
1-800 Contacts has a price match guarantee and you can also get your contact lenses cheaper via rebate if you buy 4 or more boxes. I normally don’t purchase more than a 3 month supply for my husband’s contacts because they are so pricey to begin with. Also, if I don’t have to deal with rebates to get the best deal I gladly decline. The price match guarantee also seems like a lot of trouble. Especially if you are in a hurry to order more. It’s always important to read the fine print with these.
When it comes to saving money I don’t mind going the extra mile in getting the prescription verified as long as I order ahead of time just in case there is any delay. $180 is a lot of money to save in a year on a product you can buy somewhere else and it’s the same brand. Right now ordering our contacts through Walgreens.com is a no brainer!
For more ways to save check out these great articles.
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Consider these seven questions to see if refinancing makes sense in your case.
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Individuals in some cases say that western countries have “free” medical care, yet they end up paying for their medical care through various taxes and charges. In countries like the US, people usually pay for medical care in insurance premiums. Medical care is rarely truly free. Financial experts have opined that medical services, governments, and insurance agencies determine how a normal citizen pays for healthcare. [Read more…]
When I introduced myself on Our Debt Free Family blog I wrote that my husband and I paid for our wedding on our own. With our 6 year anniversary coming up I wanted to share a bit more about how we did that.
Why did we pay for our wedding? [Read more…]
To round out Mental Health Awareness month, I thought I’d talk about one of my biggest challenges (mentally, financially, etc.). Not unlike many people, I have a really hard time asking for help, even when it has been previously offered or received. At times, this has cost me a lot. It has cost me relationships, friendships, and plenty of money. There have been moments I didn’t ask for help and took out a loan instead. Why?
I’d like to say it is pride getting the best of me, but there are probably a lot of reasons I don’t ask for help. One of the biggest is that I’m certain other people will let me down or I’ll let them down in some way. If I do it alone, no one can be disappointed with me but me. There are some other reasons you might have trouble asking for help.
First, people who are overgivers often have a difficult time asking for help. Because they focus on giving so often, they don’t always know how to accept help. You may also be codependent, which has been a large part of my problem. A lot of my own self worth has been tied up with what people think of me. So, I spend time taking care of other people instead of tending to my own needs. People ask me for help, I say yes. When it comes time for me to ask for help, on the other hand, it is nearly impossible.
It is also possible that you are trapped in a victim mindset. Maybe you’ve had bad luck in the past, it doesn’t always have to be that way. Don’t stay in the mindset that you are alone and have to handle everything alone. Counterdependency is also problem. It is the opposite of codependency. These people often say things like “I don’t need anyone or I can do it myself.” At times, this may make you seem strong and stable, but you often feel lonely and have no real connections in the world.
Trust, self-esteem, and intimacy issues have all contributed to my own personal difficulty with asking for help. Some people truly believe they need to suffer and others are beaten down by their inner critic. Whatever the case may be, it is okay to ask for help. In fact, you should do it more often.
Generally speaking, people are reluctant to offer unasked help. They don’t want to potentially offend you by offering and it can create an awkward situation. So, if you truly need help, you won’t get it unless you ask. You won’t come off as needy and it won’t harm your relationship. In fact, asking for help has actually been shown to strengthen relationships.
So, next time you’re down on your luck, remember that you can ask for help. Give yourself some grace! I’ll try to remember that too.
As parents, it’s so important to teach our kids about money, so when they leave the nest we can feel confident that they won’t learn many money mistakes the hard way like [Read more…]