Everyone that has ever been on the road of becoming debt free, knows that you have to be “weird,” like Dave Ramsey says. There are a lot of sacrifices you and your family must make in order to live a frugal lifestyle so you can throw every penny toward your debt. We’ve all experienced that moment when [Read more…]
How You and Your Family Can Better Support Small Businesses
Supporting small businesses is a great way to strengthen your local community. If the businesses within it are strong and healthy, they will be able to provide for the community’s needs and put money back into it. Since small businesses are so varied, there are many different ways to support them. If you want to encourage your whole family to support small businesses in your community, here are five ways to do so.
Leave Good Reviews
If you love a business, give them a good review online. There are many review sites where you can post your experience and encourage others to give them a try. You can also do this on social media, posting for your followers about how much you enjoy this business. Small businesses often have limited marketing funds, so word of mouth can be a lifesaver for them.
Give Second Chances
If you have a bad experience with a local business, don’t go straight to leaving a negative review. Unlike big corporations, small businesses won’t have a lot of reviews. Your single one-star review could have consequences for them. Instead, give them another chance to give your family what you need. Many small businesses have to deal with internal problems. An accounting industry overview showed that 36% of small businesses have timeline issues. Meanwhile, others feel unprepared, with 32% saying they don’t have enough guidance, 29% feeling that their accountant didn’t provide advice, and 23.6% saying their accountant didn’t educate them. With problems like this, there are bound to be some negative experiences. But if your family wants to support small businesses, try to give them a second chance to make it right.
Shop Online
If you find a small business to support, but can’t get to their physical location, try shopping online instead. Not only will it be easier for you, it will also give them a good idea of what people need from them. Over the next 12 months, businesses will overpay for three-quarters of their IT purchases. If your local small business runs a strong online market, they will be able to recoup those costs. Meanwhile, your family can support them and make purchases without leaving the house.
Switch Where You Can
While you might not be able to fulfill all your needs through small businesses, you might be surprised at what you can do. Small businesses are much more than just stores. In fact, 80% of the 322,488 clinical laboratories in the US are operated as small businesses. Look at what your family needs, then consider if a local small business can provide it for you.
Leave Tips
If you and your family go to a small business and have a wonderful experience, be generous with your tips. This is especially true for restaurants, where the waitstaff is nearly entirely reliant on tips in order to make money. While the standard for tipping is generally 20%, you might be able to offer more occasionally. These tips are good for both the small business’s financial health and as a morale boost. So, while it isn’t necessary to leave huge tips every time you’re out, make sure that you’re budgeting it into your plans as often as possible.
Small businesses face a lot of challenges, so it is important to support them in your community. There are many ways for your whole family to do this, no matter what kind of budget you have. So take a look at the businesses in your area and decide how you want to support them. Then apply these five tips. You might be surprised at the difference that your family can make.
Kitchen Staples: How to Stock Your Kitchen Without Breaking the Bank
If you read Monday’s blog post you know I’m no stranger to moving. In fact, I consider myself a bit of a moving professional at this point. That being said, there are some things that go overlooked when you are starting fresh in your new place. One of the biggest rooms that gets overlooked is the kitchen.
When you are getting ready to move most people focus on getting the place furnished. Not many people are concerned with their kitchen. Of course you can bring your old pots and pans, cooking utensils, etc. from the last place but you likely won’t be moving your food.
Repurchasing all of the food items that are normally in your kitchen can get costly though. So, I came up with a kitchen staples list and a few ideas on how to stock your pantry without breaking the bank.
Kitchen Staples
Kitchen staples is a term used for those items that are always in your pantry but you may take for granted at times. Think about that bag of flour that you know is in your kitchen right now or the spices you are certain are above your stove. All of those items are staples that normally stay behind when you move from one place to another. You don’t even realize how convenient having these kitchen staples is until you need them.
- Bread Crumbs
- Broth
- Canned Tomatoes – Diced, crushed, tomato paste, etc. can come in handy with some recipes!
- Canned Beans
- Dressing/Sauce – You’ll need to buy ketchup, mustard, mayo, any other regular condiments as well as cooking sauces (like soy).
- Flour
- Frozen Goods – Frozen veggies and quick meals are great kitchen staples to have at your fingertips.
- Minced Garlic
- Nuts – Read about why I always buy my nuts in bulk.
- Oils – Cooking oils (vegetable, peanut, etc)
- Pasta and Pasta Sauce
- Rice
- Salsa
- Spices – Depending on how expansive your spice cabinet is you may want to consider moving this with you! Spices can be pretty expensive.
- Sweeteners
- Wines – Cooking wines. Again, consider moving these with you (especially if they are unopened).
Your personal kitchen staples list may vary. For instance, if you have an allergy or dietary restrictions your list may have additional or removed items from the list. You may also consider some kitchen items to be “must haves” that others do not.
Stock Your Pantry For Less
Now that you have the preliminary list of kitchen staples you may be thinking, “there is no way I can afford to restock an entire kitchen.” Well, don’t worry! There is.
In my experience the best way to combat the cost of groceries and other kitchen items is to compare prices. It is likely that you’ll be able to find most of these items on sale in your area (and there may even be a coupon circulating). You can also try shopping at Aldi (something I recommend). By switching to shopping at Aldi many people have been able to cut their grocery bill down significantly so stocking your new kitchen with groceries from there should help cost as well.
If you have any items you think should be added to the kitchen staples list or how to stock up for less, please let us know! We’d love to hear from you.
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Postpartum Anxiety: The Thing No One Warns You About
When you have a baby everyone warns you about the “baby blues” and postpartum depression (PPD). However, not enough moms are also educated about other ways your postpartum recovery can impact your mental health and, ultimately, other parts of your life. If you have followed the blog for a while, you know I am no stranger to discussing mental health and its impact on your finances and other parts of your life. Being aware of your own mental health is a key component of living a financially successful life. More importantly, it is key to living a happy life. That’s why I decided to open up here about postpartum anxiety.
What is Postpartum Anxiety?
Postpartum anxiety affects between 10 and 15 percent of new moms. To put it simply, PPA is a constant generalized and irrational sense of fear and worry. New moms have a lot put on their shoulders, but moms with PPA are worrying all day everyday about, well, everything. It is fairly similar to regular anxiety but the increase in anxious feelings are linked to having a new baby. PPA symptoms can vary, but many moms experiencing anxiety have some (or all) of the following symptoms.
- General sense of dread or danger
- Racing thoughts – all day long
- Constantly feeling on edge
- Persistent worry about the baby (health, safety, development)
- Overwhelming sense of burden and concern about being a good parent
- Feeling jittery and agitated
- Trouble falling asleep even if you’re exhausted
- Changes in heart rate
- Difficulty breathing
- Chest pains and panic attacks
- Nausea
- Dizziness
- Shaking
- Chills and hot flashes
Why Don’t People Talk About PPA More?
Just about everyone I know has heard of postpartum depression, but no one talks about new moms with PPA. In fact, I didn’t even know it was a thing until I found out I was suffering from it. I walked around for a few months thinking I was just going crazy or overreacting to the new pressures of being a mom. Silently, I told myself to stop being dramatic and suck it up.
That didn’t stop things from continuing to be heavy. It didn’t stop my blood pressure from spiking at every small thing. It did not stop the eventual panic attack that lead me to re-evaluate my mental health.
Like the “baby blues,” some level of worry and anxiety is normal as a new parent. Constant worry everyday, on the other hand, is not. The problem is, despite the postpartum packets they give you at the hospital and all the educational materials out there, moms are made to feel like they can do it all. Don’t get me wrong, they can do it all. They shouldn’t have to though, and when family members and friends see they are struggling, they should step up.
How Educating Yourself About Mental Health Will Improve Your Life
I’m working on managing my PPA. A balanced diet, regular exercise, and making time to just be myself again are all helping me. But that doesn’t work for everyone. Some new moms with PPA, PPD, or postpartum psychosis will need additional help from doctors to find a balance again. The way forward lies in better education about the effects of pregnancy on your mental health.
Even if you aren’t expecting or recovering, educating yourself about mental health problems can make a huge difference in your own life. You can recognize when you are feeling anxious or depressed, making you more self aware. It can also help you avoid making poor financial decisions or life decisions based on the way you’re feeling in that moment.
Final Thoughts
If you’re still reading and have a new mom friend, check in on her. Mommin’ ain’t easy and, most of the time, she feels like she is alone. Let her know she isn’t, even if you only come over to watch her little one while she showers. Just having a moment to breathe can lift a huge burden off her shoulders.
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Can You Really Plan a Family?

I grew up knowing that my sister and my pregnancies were not planned out. We grew up living paycheck-to-paycheck but we never needed anything we didn’t have. I also remember the first time I learned other people planned children. Planning a family is something that always interested me but can you really plan a family? If so, how do you do it?
Can You Plan a Family?
The answer to this question isn’t an easy yes or no. Personally, I don’t think I could ever be prepared enough for a family (children, at least), which is why I’m not planning to have one. However, other people have seemingly been able to plan out their family and do it fairly successfully.
There are things you won’t be able to plan for though. You’ll never be able to fully prepare and plan for emergencies or the unexpected. For example, if your child has health problems you may wind up in debt paying for hospital bills, etc. There is no way you could have known that they’d be sickly though, so you had no way to prepare for it.
You can plan a family in other ways though. You can save money and create a solid foundation for your spouse and kids but how do you go about planning a family?
How to ‘Plan’ a Family
As stated above, there will always be costs that you cannot plan for but there are ways to plan a family. Here are a few things you’ll want to ask yourself.
- Will you need fertility treatment? If you need fertility treatment you are likely already planning a family, however, you will need to budget additional funds to pay for any fertility treatment you receive. This is not usually covered by insurance.
- How much time will you need off work? Most mothers (and fathers) need some time off work around the birth of their child. It is an emotional and tiring time for everyone. You’ll want to plan for how much time you’ll need off and establish with your place of work whether or not it will be paid.
- Do you plan on using daycare? Once you return to work (if you choose to do so) you may have to pay for daycare for your child. Many establishments will care for newborns at a higher cost. You’ll want to recreate your monthly budget and add daycare to the list of bills.
- Do you have insurance? What is covered? Some insurance companies cover most of your child’s birth but not many companies cover everything involved in the delivery (including pain meds). You’ll want to see what is and isn’t covered so that you can save the difference.
- Do you have enough space in your current living situation for a baby? Will you have to move? If so, that is a huge expense that you’ll need to plan for.
- Will you have any help from family? If you’ve got family in the area you may not spend as much on some things. For example, if your mother watches your child you may save the cost of daycare.
- Do you plan on having a baby shower? If you plan on having a baby shower you can also save quite a bit and get some items you need for you child.
Each of these questions (except the first) are things people with unplanned pregnancies usually have to figure out over the span of nine months. People who plan a family are able to control how much time they have to save the money necessary for the cost of having a child. The first few years of a child’s life can be some of the most expensive so saving money is crucial for planning a family.
Once you and your partner have established savings goals and reach them, you are ready to start your family! Or, like many others, you could plan it out in nine months. What do you think? Can you plan a family?
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Simple Household Updates That Will Save you Money in the Long Run
When thinking of making updates to your household, it’s good to think along the lines of which ones will be the most important and yield the best results for you. Read on to see some of the updates you can make that will be both simple and money-saving for you in the long run.
Get Good Window Treatments
One simple household update that can save you money is getting good window treatments. These should enable you to improve your privacy as well as energy-efficiency and thus enjoy a more functional home. One of the longest lasting options for window treatments you can get that will also be low maintenance is aluminium blinds, which are available for all sizes of windows. Find a color that will work well with the rest of your home and have them installed. The difference they make will be a noticeable one and it will give your family a more comfortable time indoors.
Switch to Energy-Efficient Appliances
If you’re still using old appliances in your home, you should consider upgrading to energy-efficient ones, which will make you good savings in terms of the energy you use over time. Shop for appliances with a good energy star rating to ensure you get the best use of energy within your home. From the washer and dryer you use to your thermostat and other items in your home, there are many items you can upgrade to get better energy-saving abilities.
Keep Your Estate Plans Updated
Experts recommend that you should update your estate plan at least once every five years. This should be done barring any major life events such as moving states and marriage as these can have a big impact on your time and resources and other general plans. With this in mind, ensure you have an expert close by who will help you keep your estate plans current and updated so that, in case of anything, you know that your family’s future is secured.
Seal Your Ducts
The ducts that you rely on to ferry treated air in and out of your home should be in a good state at all times. To ensure that they’re not leaking and costing you more energy, have them sealed. You could hire an expert to do this for you or do it yourself if you’re able. When you’re not losing treated air meant for use in your home and your heating and cooling is working efficiently, you can save a sizeable amount on your energy bills over time.
Take Regular Care of Your Lawn
Finally, your lawn is responsible for your home’s curb appeal, at least in part. Take good care of it to make sure it’s in the best possible state and won’t have your home looking old and neglected. With most lawns found to require at least one inch of water a week, you need to ensure that you water your lawn as often as is necessary after mowing it so it stays in good shape for a long time. Alternatively, get a xeriscape instead of grass, as it will need less water to thrive. The native plants that you will get should also be drought-resistant in order to give you the best results. You will be able to spend less time monitoring and babying your lawn doing something else that you enjoy.
With these simple updates, you can get a home that will look as good as it feels for your whole family. Take the time to make the updates suggested and you will get good returns in the form of saved time and money as well as improved value of your home.
How to Entertain on a Shoestring Budget

An easy fix to this issue would simply be to not throw any parties or have one nice get-together a year. However, I enjoy entertaining too much to completely cut it out of the budget all together, which lead me to come up with a few tips on how to entertain on a shoestring budget.
How to Entertain on a Shoestring Budget
The truth is that many people are on tighter budgets than they used to be. Potluck dinners, BYOBs and budget-friendly parties are becoming more and more common. If you’re looking to entertain on a smaller-than-usual budget, here are a few ideas to consider:
- Hold a potluck: Ask your friends to bring a side dish, dessert, beverage or even plates, napkins, etc. to lessen your financial burden. This will allow everyone to contribute and it will allow you to stick to your party budget.
- BYOB: If you’re trying to entertain on a shoestring budget you’ve probably already announced your party is BYOB. Alcohol is expensive and, although it used to be considered taboo, BYOB parties are becoming more common as booze prices rise.
- Don’t buy brand name: When you purchasing items for your party (ingredients, snacks, etc) shop the cheaper, generic brands. Chances are no one will be able to tell the difference and it’ll allow you to stick to your budget.
- Borrow instead of renting: Many people rent tables and chairs for their parties. Instead of spending the money renting, check with friends to see if they will lend you items.
- Buy labels to avoid waste: Get permanent markers or stickers to mark cups at your party. This will prevent you from throwing away drinks and cups because of confusion.
- Cheap entertainment everyone enjoys: Get a deck of cards or a fun group game (I recommend Apples to Apples or Cards Against Humanity). These can provide entertainment at the party for a low price.
- Hold a “rent party”: It is becoming more common to see people charging admission to their parties. These are oftentimes called “rent parties” because people use them to raise the money for rent at the end of the month. It isn’t unheard of for hosts to ask their guests to chip in (especially if they are footing the bill for everything).
- Don’t be afraid to end the party: Lastly, don’t be afraid to tell people to go home. You may spend more money than you intended if the party lasts longer than you thought it would. If people stay longer they’ll eat and drink more. Don’t be afraid to include an “end time” on your invitation.
There are plenty of other great ways to entertain on a shoestring budget out there as well, including making your appetizers from scratch. If you’ve got something you think we should add to the list, let us know.
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5 Tax Tips for Freelancers
Any freelancing job comes with the added fun of being your own accountant. Sure, you’re your own boss too, but now you’ve got to handle all the finances yourself. You need to make sure you’re working enough to live, a little extra if you’ve got something to save for, and, crucially, that you are doing your taxes right.
It’s already a hassle doing your own taxes every year, so to shake up the routine for the sake of taxing a freelance job can feel like a headache. If you’re having trouble, take a look at these tips to help make your taxes easier.
Don’t mix personal and business
You might have decided that, since you are the sole trader of your business, and the bank therefore doesn’t require it, you’ll not bother with a business bank account. That’s fine; however, not recommended. Keep your personal finances separated from your business for a lot of reasons.
For one thing, it will stop you just from spending business money on a new pair of shoes you just had to have, or personal money set for the utilities on an unexpected business bill. A little bit here and there can lead to more. Keeping the two separate will keep you from confusing the two, when looking at your account, which tend to present everything as one big pot.
By keeping business and personal accounts separate, you will see clearly how much money is tied up in business, how much to budget for costs, and you won’t have to decide which expenses are business related down the line.
Keep all your documents digital
There are a lot of logical reasons to keep your documents digitally stored. There is the obvious, that it lowers physical clutter, keeps things accessible, provides a backup, etc., but it also makes everything a lot easier to find. If life had a search tab, we’d never have to have a hide-a-key.
When it comes to taxes, you need to keep a hold of all your documents for at least five years after the 31 January tax deadline. That’s a lot of documents to go hunting through for something that happened five years ago.
This is important for purchases and expenses. Expenses are one of the few ways you can reduce your taxable income, and there are a lot of expenses that you can gain in a year. But getting your expenses wrong could be a tax liability. The taxman is going to need proof of all of these expenses in order to write them off, and they will be a lot easier to find and present to the taxman if they’re not in a huddled pile in a drawer in your office.
Another tip is to file them in chronological order and label them with a date so that you can easily pull them. There are lots of accounting software out there to help you with this. When it comes to creating a digital copy, you can invest in a scanner to make things clearer.
Stick to a routine
One of the main perks of freelancing is the flexible working schedule, which can be tempting to sway from anyway, so it’s important that you find some semblance of a schedule. But when it comes to accounting, it’s vital. The flexible work routine doesn’t really hand itself to accounting as you will need to be prompt with everything you are doing.
It’s recommended that you get a little done every day, rather than a lot done in a week. Set aside at least 30 minutes every day to file your documents as you need to to keep everything in order. Keep it to raising invoices, adding expenses, and reviewing reports on your dashboard and you’re done until January. It’s a case where a little tedium now will save you a lot of stress down the line.
Keep track of all sources of income
If you are freelancing, it’s likely you will have various sources of income, various clients hiring you for your work, various rates of work done for various people. Keeping track of all this is a lot easier with the new addition of online banking, and it’s important that you use it in your bookkeeping. There is accounting software that can help you here. You can link your bank feeds to the accounting software so that the software can do all the heavy lifting of tracking your accounts. Plus, your cloud-stored files will be available to the software for you to pull out as you need it.
Get professional help when you need it
Unfortunately, some of us simply don’t have the mind for numbers, never mind accounting. It’s a tedious process, with consequences if we get it wrong – and there is a lot of room for error.
If you find yourself struggling, there is nothing wrong with consulting a professional. You can hand over all your accounts and documents to a freelancer accountant to deal with and trust that they have your taxes handled. With the finances looked after, you can keep focused on growing your business. Growing your business will mean more income, and more income will mean more work for the accountant to get done.
Of course, all this will be moot if the freelance job you’re looking for is in accounting. Then you’ve just got a side task to get done.
Budget-Friendly Outdoor Activities for Summertime

When everyone is out of school and people are taking vacation it is easy to forget that you still have a budget to adhere to. Having a list of go-to budget-friendly outdoor activities for summer can help out a lot if you’re in a pinch for something to do.
Budget-Friendly Outdoor Activities for Summer
Creating a list of budget-friendly activities for the summertime isn’t too difficult. There are a TON of things to do (especially outside). Here are just a few:
Cheap Things to Do This Summer
- Water Balloon Fight: Holding a water balloon fight can be fun, especially if you have kids and it is fairly inexpensive. You’ll just have to foot the bill for the water and the balloons (which you can find fairly cheap at the Dollar Store).
- Water Guns: Similarly, water guns can be found at the Dollar Store and it can be great fun. Even if you and your adult friends get together for a water gun fight, it will be an afternoon of great fun!
- Play With Chalk: No one is too old to play with chalk. Find a spot on the sidewalk or in your driveway and make some art. It is extremely cheap and a great budget0-friendly outdoor activity.
- Take a Day Trip: If you live in an area where you can make a day trip fairly easily, plan one! Day trips can save a lot of money because you won’t be spending cash on lodging and you can also plan to pack food so you don’t have to pay restaurant prices. If you like being outdoors, this list of destinations has 50 amazing places to travel!
- Go Fishing: Fishing is a relatively inexpensive outdoor activity if you have fishing rods already. If not, it can be costly the first time but will provide hours and hours of entertainment on the low.
- Host a Potluck Cookout: If you want to get together with friends why not host a potluck cookout? You can provide the hamburgers and hotdogs and have your friends come prepared with side dishes and drinks.
- Check Sites Like Groupon: Groupon and Living Social have great local deals throughout the entire year. If you’re looking for something cheap to do, both sites are great places to look.
- Happy Hour: Feel like having an adult beverage? Make sure to check your favorite bar’s happy hour. Usually around 5:00 they will run specials on different drinks. Additionally, many bars have drinks specials day-to-day so you’ll want to ask your bartender about what’s on special the day you go.
Free Summertime Activities
In addition to cheap things to do over the summer there are also some activities you can do for free. Here are a few I came across:
- Cheap/Free Movies: My local theater offers free kids movies throughout the summer. Check your local theater to see if they do the same.
- Look Out For Free Events: Many community centers hold free events when the weather is nice. Look on billboards and other posting centers throughout town.
- Learn Something New: Check your local community centers for free classes. You may be able to learn a new craft or skill for free.
- Hit the Library: Another great place to find free classes and events is the library, not to mention all of the free books your heart could desire.
- Volunteer: If you’re still looking for something free to do this summer, volunteer. There is likely a local shelter or organization in need of your help.
These are just a few budget-friendly outdoor (and indoor) activities that you can try out this summer. If you have one you think should be added to the list, let us know!
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Our Third Wedding Anniversary: Reflections
March 18, 2019 was the day my husband and I got married. As you know, it has been a wild ride. We got married and, two days later, moved to Atlanta (a place we’d only visited once). We were adventurers. Both of us would jump at the opportunity to experience something new. Three years later, everything and nothing has changed.
We still jump at the opportunity to experience new things, but we do some research and make sure it is in the budget. There is also nothing in the world that would make us want to live in a big city again. Love to everyone in Atlanta, but we didn’t have a good time there. Maybe it was bad timing (COVID-19 and all), but our experience there turned us off of living in the city altogether.
Our relationship over the last year has only gotten stronger. At this time last year, I was pregnant and we were eagerly waiting to find out the gender. Neither of us were surprised with the ultrasound tech told us we were expecting a baby girl.
I got to see my husband, who was already my best friend, become a dad. It looks good on him! He also kickstarted a new career where I know he will do amazing things. We nourished each other’s hobbies and helped each other grow. “And like the Grinch” my heart has grown at least three sizes this year to shower our little family in love each day.
Financially, we are so much better off than we were three years ago and even more so than when we first moved in together six years ago. During our relationship, we have been homeless living in a motel, a great apartment we loved, a run-down temporary house, crowded in a 450 sq. ft. condo with bed bugs, and now in our little three-bedroom rental. We’ve been through it all.
The biggest thing we both need to get adjusted to is being able to live rather than just survive. There have been a lot of really intense situations we’ve dealt with over the last few years. Motel living, bed bugs at Christmas, moving back to North Carolina to discover I was pregnant one month later. Right now, I’d love for us to be able to sit back and really enjoy this moment in our lives instead of constantly wondering how we will pay for rent or what if XYZ happens? I want to live rather than just survive.
All in all, we have had a great anniversary. We got a few kid-free hours, ate great food, visited the bookstore, and got to do a puzzle. Of course, we got plenty of time with our little one too. Cheers to three years and a lifetime ahead of us. I can’t wait to see where it takes us.
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